Justify

So, the Ex sent a message saying she asked your son if he wanted to visit you in China, and he said no, several times.

Message content:
“When r u comin 2 kk? Do u hav 2 take him to china for 2 1/2 months? I asked jarrod innocently if he wants to stay in china with u, but he said a few times no”
Sent: 22:57:16 28-05-2006

“He is 3 n understands things very well. B4 u book his ticket, mayb u should ask jarrod how he feels about it.”
Sent: 22:56:42 28-05-2006

This shows me that

• She is very reluctant to let him spend time with me away from her. Because she doesn’t trust me perhaps, or maybe for some other reason;
• She also changes her mind several times, even though she accuses me of doing the same. She might say ‘but it was Jarrod who said it, not me’;
• In order to see my son for any significant time, I will have to live in the same city with him;
• If he really means what he is saying, it means that he is quite attached to his environment, and in light of that me living there really is the only option for me seeing him and him seeing me regularly;

The Ex will say that living in KL is also an option, but she knows as I do that it will be expensive, and the she will only let him go for weekends and such.